diff --git a/qemu/docs/memory.txt b/qemu/docs/memory.txt
index b12f1f04..6a5a9ac1 100644
--- a/qemu/docs/memory.txt
+++ b/qemu/docs/memory.txt
@@ -73,17 +73,65 @@ stability.
 Region lifecycle
 ----------------
 
-A region is created by one of the constructor functions (memory_region_init*())
-and attached to an object.  It is then destroyed by object_unparent() or simply
-when the parent object dies.
+A region is created by one of the memory_region_init*() functions and
+attached to an object, which acts as its owner or parent.  QEMU ensures
+that the owner object remains alive as long as the region is visible to
+the guest, or as long as the region is in use by a virtual CPU or another
+device.  For example, the owner object will not die between an
+address_space_map operation and the corresponding address_space_unmap.
 
-In between, a region can be added to an address space
-by using memory_region_add_subregion() and removed using
-memory_region_del_subregion().  Destroying the region implicitly
-removes the region from the address space.
+After creation, a region can be added to an address space or a
+container with memory_region_add_subregion(), and removed using
+memory_region_del_subregion().
 
-Region attributes may be changed at any point; they take effect once
-the region becomes exposed to the guest.
+Various region attributes (read-only, dirty logging, coalesced mmio,
+ioeventfd) can be changed during the region lifecycle.  They take effect
+as soon as the region is made visible.  This can be immediately, later,
+or never.
+
+Destruction of a memory region happens automatically when the owner
+object dies.
+
+If however the memory region is part of a dynamically allocated data
+structure, you should call object_unparent() to destroy the memory region
+before the data structure is freed.  For an example see VFIOMSIXInfo
+and VFIOQuirk in hw/vfio/pci.c.
+
+You must not destroy a memory region as long as it may be in use by a
+device or CPU.  In order to do this, as a general rule do not create or
+destroy memory regions dynamically during a device's lifetime, and only
+call object_unparent() in the memory region owner's instance_finalize
+callback.  The dynamically allocated data structure that contains the
+memory region then should obviously be freed in the instance_finalize
+callback as well.
+
+If you break this rule, the following situation can happen:
+
+- the memory region's owner had a reference taken via memory_region_ref
+  (for example by address_space_map)
+
+- the region is unparented, and has no owner anymore
+
+- when address_space_unmap is called, the reference to the memory region's
+  owner is leaked.
+
+
+There is an exception to the above rule: it is okay to call
+object_unparent at any time for an alias or a container region.  It is
+therefore also okay to create or destroy alias and container regions
+dynamically during a device's lifetime.
+
+This exceptional usage is valid because aliases and containers only help
+QEMU building the guest's memory map; they are never accessed directly.
+memory_region_ref and memory_region_unref are never called on aliases
+or containers, and the above situation then cannot happen.  Exploiting
+this exception is rarely necessary, and therefore it is discouraged,
+but nevertheless it is used in a few places.
+
+For regions that "have no owner" (NULL is passed at creation time), the
+machine object is actually used as the owner.  Since instance_finalize is
+never called for the machine object, you must never call object_unparent
+on regions that have no owner, unless they are aliases or containers.
 
 Overlapping regions and priority
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